I found this on stumbleupon and it is so cute, and SO TRUE.
CLICK HERE. It's such a cute article
Sunday, August 26, 2012
Saturday, August 11, 2012
My Thoughts/Reflections on "Hooking Up"
First things first, my definition of hooking up does not include sleeping with someone. But sometimes it does.
Okay, so recently some events in my life have caused me to stop and reflect on myself as a person, and my morals. I joke with my friends saying that "I have no soul," that I am the "Ice Queen" because I don't really have emotions when it comes to guys.. weird, I know, you would think it would be the other way around.
I wasn't always this way. I used to be the crazy, omg-he-kissed-me-(or texted or whatever)-he-definitely-wants-to-date-me type. Scaring guys away with my tendency to text them too much, or just come on too strong. However, over the years, I have developed a characteristic that is the complete polar opposite of that girl. I just don't care anymore. I meet a guy--and whatever, I am not running to my phone the next day to text them "hiii:)." In fact, if they do text me, I usually don't even answer. I'm really a nice person I swear.
What's ironic is, when I do talk to a guy, regardless of if we have hung out before or anything, my caring personality would and is be misinterpreted into being "interested" or "clingy," when all I was doing was asking about your exam you told me you were stressing about... and they say girls are complex... so to solve this problem, I just stopped. Seriously, I just starting to give zero fucks and said "yolo" a lot; stop judginggg.
So being a soul-less slut (hahah not really, at all) has been working for me. Only, all my friends have boyfriends and are acting all grown up (vom) a part of me wants to have a steady boyfriend, but another part of me just wants to have fun and continue to not give a shit.
And recently I met a guy I had a freakishly lot in common with, like weird things you would never think you would have in common with anyone.. and I didn't even think about like, it becoming anything until he said "so you know, I'm not looking for anything, I just got out of a relationship..." something along those lines, he really knows how to make a girl feel special (kidding he is really sweet). My response? "I just met you... it's cool though, don't worry, I have no soul or emotions." or something along those lines..I really have a way with words. Thinking back on it, I made myself sound like a raging whore. What I should have/meant to say is "I understand, don't worry, I'm not the clingy, attached type." ..even though that really not much better, but whatever.
I like having fun and not having to care or worry; but at the same time, I want a boyfriend, I want to have that nervous/butterflies in my stomach feeling when I see him, and be able to smile because he's mine. I want to smile like a thirteen year old girl just got kissed on the cheek by Justin Bieber when I get a text or call from him, and just when I'm with him. I want to fall in love.
BUTTTTT, until then I'm just gonna continue being reckless and have fun.
YOLO.
S
Okay, so recently some events in my life have caused me to stop and reflect on myself as a person, and my morals. I joke with my friends saying that "I have no soul," that I am the "Ice Queen" because I don't really have emotions when it comes to guys.. weird, I know, you would think it would be the other way around.
I wasn't always this way. I used to be the crazy, omg-he-kissed-me-(or texted or whatever)-he-definitely-wants-to-date-me type. Scaring guys away with my tendency to text them too much, or just come on too strong. However, over the years, I have developed a characteristic that is the complete polar opposite of that girl. I just don't care anymore. I meet a guy--and whatever, I am not running to my phone the next day to text them "hiii:)." In fact, if they do text me, I usually don't even answer. I'm really a nice person I swear.
What's ironic is, when I do talk to a guy, regardless of if we have hung out before or anything, my caring personality would and is be misinterpreted into being "interested" or "clingy," when all I was doing was asking about your exam you told me you were stressing about... and they say girls are complex... so to solve this problem, I just stopped. Seriously, I just starting to give zero fucks and said "yolo" a lot; stop judginggg.
So being a soul-less slut (hahah not really, at all) has been working for me. Only, all my friends have boyfriends and are acting all grown up (vom) a part of me wants to have a steady boyfriend, but another part of me just wants to have fun and continue to not give a shit.
And recently I met a guy I had a freakishly lot in common with, like weird things you would never think you would have in common with anyone.. and I didn't even think about like, it becoming anything until he said "so you know, I'm not looking for anything, I just got out of a relationship..." something along those lines, he really knows how to make a girl feel special (kidding he is really sweet). My response? "I just met you... it's cool though, don't worry, I have no soul or emotions." or something along those lines..I really have a way with words. Thinking back on it, I made myself sound like a raging whore. What I should have/meant to say is "I understand, don't worry, I'm not the clingy, attached type." ..even though that really not much better, but whatever.
I like having fun and not having to care or worry; but at the same time, I want a boyfriend, I want to have that nervous/butterflies in my stomach feeling when I see him, and be able to smile because he's mine. I want to smile like a thirteen year old girl just got kissed on the cheek by Justin Bieber when I get a text or call from him, and just when I'm with him. I want to fall in love.
BUTTTTT, until then I'm just gonna continue being reckless and have fun.
YOLO.
S
Thursday, August 2, 2012
Be Your Everything
Boys like Girls- Be Your Everything
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